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Jeanine Kitchel's avatar

Love is negotiation really. Not at first--but if it lasts, it becomes one. Even small things like splitting up chores. It's kinda like the Frost poem--good fences make good neighbors. Everyone needs to know where they stand.

Patrick Muindi's avatar

Indeed. I like how you explain this. When each plays their role, we never get to see the negotiation, which is really the point of love. Thank you, Jeanine.

Atma's avatar

Are you depressed? Genuinely curious

Atma's avatar

Because reading some of these made me sad

Patrick Muindi's avatar

No, I'm not.

Tinashe D. Ndhlovu's avatar

Choosing the right partner is probably the most important decision we make, as compatibility shapes far more than feelings.

Love flourishes with the right person, but the wrong match can be deeply damaging.

Thanks for sharing these!

Patrick Muindi's avatar

Indeed. As in many other things, we win or lose even before we start. Love is good, but it's hard to impossible with the wrong person. Thank you for these observations, Tinashe.